Then I read tomorrow's Hayom Yom.
"A care in a man's heart, yash'chena." Our sages offer two interpretations of that last word: "Remove the care from the mind" or "discuss it with others."
The Tzemach Tzedek commented: "...with others" who are "others" only in the bodily sense, but are completely united with him, for they empathize with him.
I got my answer from the Rebbe - and so soon - without even writing in...