to get rid of yourself...
...and be yourself.
"One who loves must learn fear. One who fears must learn love.
The thinker must do. The doer must think.
The pacifist must fight, the fighter must find peace.
If you flow as a river, burn as a fire. If you burn as a furnace, flow as a river.
If you fly as a bird, sit firm as a rock. If you sit firmly, then fly as a bird.
Be a fire that flows. A rock that flies. Love with fear and fear with love.For we are not fire, not water, not air, not rocks, not thoughts, not deeds, not fear, not love.
We are G-dly beings."